Conscious Man~

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HOW CAN I TELL IF HE’S CONSCIOUS?
It’s in the way he listens, how he respects your intuition and embraces your emotions, especially on the days you can’t explain why you’re so upset.

It’s the way he makes you feel safe by holding you rather than stepping away when he doesn’t know what to do.

It’s in the way he handles a long day at work, he doesn’t escape, he’s able to stay present and communicate.

It’s in the way he handles conflict. He doesn’t yell, rage, cry, swear, shrink or run away. He remains in control and stays connected until it’s resolved.

It’s in the way he can read your body, your energy, the essence of you. He’s taken the time to get to know YOU.

It’s in his ability to open you up sexually. You can trust this man so you’re able to let go, to express your deepest desires in a space of passion, intimacy and full trust.

It’s in the way he pushes you, challenges you, and expects the best from you. He does this all from a place of love not judgement.

It’s in the way he expects you to be a grown up and handle your shit. He won’t save you, run after you, or chase you. He will support you. He knows you can save yourself.

It’s in the way he handles pressure. He faces the fear and he steps up everytime, all the time. If he doesn’t have the answer he finds it, if he needs support he asks for it. He doesn’t quit until the issue is resolved.

It’s in his commitment to purpose. A conscious man knows who he is and why he’s here. He has claimed his place in this world, he has stepped through his fear and his life is a reflection of this commitment, especially when he’s under pressure.

Don’t settle, you deserve magnificence.

~Jenn

http://www.facebook.com/groups/ConsciousWomen

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6 thoughts on “Conscious Man~

  1. Yes. Well said …except there are a few things

    ‘It’s in the way he handles conflict. He doesn’t yell, rage, cry, swear, shrink or run away. He remains in control and stays connected until it’s resolved.’

    This is a dualistic perception. An awakened man does not view anything as conflict. This is why he does not yell, rage, cry, swear, shrink or run away … BECAUSE he uses none of these for manipulation. An awakened man will cry to cleanse his heart and mind, he will let himself feel his emotions and feelings and inner dialogue WITHOUT letting it influence his personal grace when interacting with the outside world.

    An awakened man is DISCIPLINED because it is much more than mere control and he stays PRESENT because when present the greatest amount of Love can be brought into the present situation.Hence not anger, swearing, shrinking or running away. When in love there is no conflict…..

    If you would like a dialogue on a male’s perspective on this concept of an awakened male then message me. This perspective as it is written above is solely from an external perspective – and written by a woman. 🙂

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  2. Ben Irvine

    Thanks for that Jenn, really inpiring.

    One quality I would add, one that I have been slowly developing, is a man’s ability to be self-forgiving and know how to nurture himself back to fullness in the case that he is unable to fully embody all the above.

    Cheers!

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  3. ireflektureflekti

    You’re pretty much saying “he should be perfect”. These are all expectations and to expect something to be a certain way “all” the time is unrealistic. Being human is often raw and messy..mistakes made can be lessons learned which takes the place of ignorance in return.

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