If You Choose an Awakened Woman~



If you choose to love an awakened woman, understand that you are entering into new, radical and challenging territory.

If you choose to love an awakened woman, you cannot stay asleep.

If you choose to love an awakened woman, every part of your Soul will be aroused, not just your sexual organs or even your heart.

Frankly, if you prefer a normal life, stick with a normal girl.

If you want a tame life, seek only a woman who has allowed herself to be tamed.

If you only want to dip your toe into the flowing waters of Shakti, stay with the safe, tamed woman who has not yet plunged into the wildness of the Sacred Feminine ocean.

It is comfortable to love a woman who has not yet activated her inner sacred powers, because she does not push your buttons.

She will not challenge you.

She will not press you into becoming your highest Self.

She will not awaken the forgotten and numbed-out parts of your Spirit that urge you to remember that there is more to your Life here than this.

She will not look into your weary eyes and send a lightning bolt of Truth through your body, jolting you awake and stirring long-lost desires for Soul Love within you.

A safe, unawakened woman will be wonderfully satisfying and soothing to your ego, heart, and body. She will walk quietly beside you and make you feel needed, responsible, like you are fulfilling your manly role.

If this is enough for you then accept it, love her with all your heart, remain faithful to her and thank her daily for the gift of her mild, unthreatening feminine presence in your life.

If this is not enough for you – if your heart, body and spirit is only craving the ‘other kind of woman’, the Wild One – then know that you are on the cusp of Soul-Shifting transformation.

Know that you are making a serious choice with karmic consequences.

If you choose to step into the aura and body of a woman whose spiritual fires are blazing, you are accepting that you need a certain level of danger and risk in order to grow.

Once you begin to love a woman of this nature, you must accept total responsibility for the life-changes that will then ensue.

Your life will not be sleepily comfortable all the time. Your life will not allow you to stay stuck in old ruts and stagnant routines. Your life will take on a radically-new flavour and scent. You will be ignited by the presence of the Wild Feminine, and it will begin to send electric shockwaves of spiritual Light through your entire chakra system, attuning you to the Call of the Divine.

Choosing to be sexually and romantically-intimate with an awakened woman takes masculine courage to walk fearlessly into the Unknown. But it will reap rewards beyond your mind’s comprehension.

She will take you into undiscovered worlds of mystery and magic.

She will lead you, mesmerised and half-drunk with love, into the wild forests of sensual ecstasy and wonder.

She will show you sacred skies so full and burning with stars that you will start to wonder if you are still living on the same planet that you were born on.

She will break and tear you open so that your fierce, passionate heart drives you half-mad with longing. You will want to consume and penetrate her on every level so that your Masculine Essence can consume and penetrate the world – illuminating the Universe with your devoted Love.

She will see you like you’ve never been seen before.

She will trust you.

She will appreciate you.

She will acknowledge your efforts to make her happy.

She will value everything good that you do, and everything good that you are.

She will not run from your darkness, because your darkness does not scare her.

She will embrace, kiss, caress and love you back to Life. She will speak words that your Soul understands. She will not punish you for your mistakes.

It is a monumental risk to love an awakened woman, because there is suddenly no place to hide. She sees everything, therefore she can love you with a depth and presence that your heart and body have yearned for so hard, so long, so fiercely…that you wonder whether you have actually been alive for all the time that she has been away.

Loving a woman like this is a choice you make to start living with your Soul on fire.

Your life will never be the same again once you’ve invited her energy in.

Take this risk on yourself, or step back, stay with the normal girl and accept a different, safer, more comfortable and somewhat calmer life.

Just make sure that if you choose the latter, you don’t spend the rest of your days with your eyes looking back over your shoulder, straining to see once again the hazy vision of Feminine Mystery that has now disappeared from view.

She has long gone..spiralling back up to the Stars, the distant Galaxies and the Heavens…from where She came.

~Sophie Bashford


95 thoughts on “If You Choose an Awakened Woman~

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  2. Alto

    Can we change all the times the word woman appears to :man?
    If we can then it is contributing to free ourselfs from traditional gender roles..
    As it is now it reduces this hope for me.

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    1. Mia

      Plus the association of “masculine” with strength and daring makes this truly depressing. Even those who ascribe to gender norms are being told that being feminine and strong means doing something masculine.



      1. Alisa

        You have to understand the Dynamics of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine to get the gist of what is written above. This has nothing to do with gender.

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    2. i would say absolutely YES.

      as a being that people like to call awakened and wearing the skin of a male, i absolutely suffer the inverse which frankly scares most women. once awakened, there is no turning back, and nothing less will joy our essence.

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  3. BlueEyes

    We have this experience! Time stopped when our eyes met over six years ago and that night we swam in the ocean connected to the heavens. We could not see where the sea and sky met and it felt like swimming in the stars. Then bioluminescent phytoplankton swarmed around us creating the most magical experience I have ever had. We both knew we were being told we are meant for each other. We have been together since that night and are having our third child. Our souls clicked into harmony and we feel as though we have met and loved many lifetimes before. I always felt more connected to earth, sea and sky but no man was meant for my love and passion until now, even though they tried to keep me. To my husband I am a goddess and he can’t break our connection and his passionate love for me. I believe we are soulmates because I do not hear of a connection like ours except in books or stories by others online. We feel alive. We feel a connection beyond explanation that at points doesn’t even need words to communicate even when hundreds of miles apart. A love like this does exist! I promise you!

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    1. I agree, this is possible. I had a brief glimpse of it when I was much younger. Unfortunately, some part of me was too afraid to embrace it and I walked away from it. He and I are still connected, though we have not spoken. Takeaway message…..don’t walk away from this powerful connection if you have it….you will regret it the rest of your life..

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  5. Kristopher

    This describes the great traits of a woman, who is awakened, aware, open, free and fearless. The woman is our creator in a natural phenomenon and woman is also motivating force, inspiration and eye opener. She an bring out the truthfulness from a man and can give wings to his wilderness. She can challenge a man to meet her energy and play with her wilderness at the same pace and with same intensity particularly in the most intimate, sensual and sexual moment to meet her fire to create that moment where both are in a state of bliss with renewed energy to take the journey to ext level.


  6. Scott

    Beautifully said, I’m unsure how I sit? I have loved a woman whom had not yet been awakened, I too was asleep! I awoke and realised that in order to grow together her awakening was essential. I now love a woman that is awakening! As does she love a fella that is waking up and learning how to love wholly. How does this fit your theory? Is it so black and white, as to be either awake or asleep ? Is it not a kaleidoscope of multi-dimensional transformation? Watching a flower is grow is special, challenging and fulfilling, is it not? I mean I’m not sure ? I’m just a man supporting a woman thru an awakening transformation and wondering how it sits with what you have mentioned, or how it is sort of inbetween and I would love to hear any thoughts on the subject.

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    1. For most people, awakening is a process liken your flower. It is hardly black and white, yet we must avoid quantifying awakening; I’ve seen that done in the Oneness Community and that felt so very sad. It was actually a point of beginning a breakdown in that community.

      A point in the article though brings home a truth to awakening in that an awakened one continually flowers until there is nothing left and we return to embrace our greater home.

      Thus enjoy the flower for that is a great treasure to watch, to experience, and to share with. I myself find sharing in that as one of my greatest joys.

      But always be aware that the flowers growth and yours may not match. If one fearfully stops their awakening, one of you may lose the sense of fulfillment in that sharing. Once the awakening has gone far enough, there is no turning back and the mundane will no longer suffice.


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  8. Atul@+919637771115

    I agree & I wish every woman to be an awakened woman – its great fun & extraordinary to be with one – InshaAllaH


  9. Shubham

    Its really hard to find such woman. I know i will find her at the right time at right place and at the most complicated situation.


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  11. Chris Nowlan

    Is the person you are describing here really “awakened” or just starting out on their journey? Extinguishing the things we do that generate and feed both our conscious and unconscious drives to maintain an “erroneous” idea that we are a permanent, lasting “self” is a fundamental understanding that is necessary to become awakened. My impression is an awakened person (female or male) could and would enter a relationship in a way in which they wouldn’t use the other person and their relationship as a means to generate this futile sense of a permanent, lasting self for themselves. The word “craving” is used right in the middle of this article. Craving is totally antithetical to being awakened. What you are describing here seems at best an exercise for someone beginning on the path to awakening for them to experience and learn the ultimate futility of such an approach either to life or a relationship. I believe two individuals (regardless of either’s gender) that enter into a relationship without a false sense of a lasting self and/or work with each other not to use the other and their relationship to maintain a false and ultimately dissatisfying sense of a futile lasting self is key to a successful relationship and being truly awakened (once again, regardless to either partner’s gender).


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  13. Magnìfico prospecto. Pero la tradicional, obsoleta y negativa Conciencia Colectiva, no parece que permitirà a esta maravillosa, valiente y extraordinaria mujer, necesaria en el mundo actual, nacer antes de finales de este siglo.


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  15. MB

    My exact feelings written in a beautiful way.
    I cannot understand this need to tame a female partner .
    If she chooses her dreams then conditions and ultimatum are laid infront of her. Not only her man, but her entire family could be against her awaken self. They say either choose us or your dreams. They ask what u gonna do with your success without us.
    Why don’t they understand that they are incorporated into her dreams? Why don’t you try empowering and understanding her?


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