If You Choose an Awakened Woman~

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IF YOU CHOOSE TO LOVE AN AWAKENED WOMAN~~

If you choose to love an awakened woman, understand that you are entering into new, radical and challenging territory.

If you choose to love an awakened woman, you cannot stay asleep.

If you choose to love an awakened woman, every part of your Soul will be aroused, not just your sexual organs or even your heart.

Frankly, if you prefer a normal life, stick with a normal girl.

If you want a tame life, seek only a woman who has allowed herself to be tamed.

If you only want to dip your toe into the flowing waters of Shakti, stay with the safe, tamed woman who has not yet plunged into the wildness of the Sacred Feminine ocean.

It is comfortable to love a woman who has not yet activated her inner sacred powers, because she does not push your buttons.

She will not challenge you.

She will not press you into becoming your highest Self.

She will not awaken the forgotten and numbed-out parts of your Spirit that urge you to remember that there is more to your Life here than this.

She will not look into your weary eyes and send a lightning bolt of Truth through your body, jolting you awake and stirring long-lost desires for Soul Love within you.

A safe, unawakened woman will be wonderfully satisfying and soothing to your ego, heart, and body. She will walk quietly beside you and make you feel needed, responsible, like you are fulfilling your manly role.

If this is enough for you then accept it, love her with all your heart, remain faithful to her and thank her daily for the gift of her mild, unthreatening feminine presence in your life.

If this is not enough for you – if your heart, body and spirit is only craving the ‘other kind of woman’, the Wild One – then know that you are on the cusp of Soul-Shifting transformation.

Know that you are making a serious choice with karmic consequences.

If you choose to step into the aura and body of a woman whose spiritual fires are blazing, you are accepting that you need a certain level of danger and risk in order to grow.

Once you begin to love a woman of this nature, you must accept total responsibility for the life-changes that will then ensue.

Your life will not be sleepily comfortable all the time. Your life will not allow you to stay stuck in old ruts and stagnant routines. Your life will take on a radically-new flavour and scent. You will be ignited by the presence of the Wild Feminine, and it will begin to send electric shockwaves of spiritual Light through your entire chakra system, attuning you to the Call of the Divine.

Choosing to be sexually and romantically-intimate with an awakened woman takes masculine courage to walk fearlessly into the Unknown. But it will reap rewards beyond your mind’s comprehension.

She will take you into undiscovered worlds of mystery and magic.

She will lead you, mesmerised and half-drunk with love, into the wild forests of sensual ecstasy and wonder.

She will show you sacred skies so full and burning with stars that you will start to wonder if you are still living on the same planet that you were born on.

She will break and tear you open so that your fierce, passionate heart drives you half-mad with longing. You will want to consume and penetrate her on every level so that your Masculine Essence can consume and penetrate the world – illuminating the Universe with your devoted Love.

She will see you like you’ve never been seen before.

She will trust you.

She will appreciate you.

She will acknowledge your efforts to make her happy.

She will value everything good that you do, and everything good that you are.

She will not run from your darkness, because your darkness does not scare her.

She will embrace, kiss, caress and love you back to Life. She will speak words that your Soul understands. She will not punish you for your mistakes.

It is a monumental risk to love an awakened woman, because there is suddenly no place to hide. She sees everything, therefore she can love you with a depth and presence that your heart and body have yearned for so hard, so long, so fiercely…that you wonder whether you have actually been alive for all the time that she has been away.

Loving a woman like this is a choice you make to start living with your Soul on fire.

Your life will never be the same again once you’ve invited her energy in.

Take this risk on yourself, or step back, stay with the normal girl and accept a different, safer, more comfortable and somewhat calmer life.

Just make sure that if you choose the latter, you don’t spend the rest of your days with your eyes looking back over your shoulder, straining to see once again the hazy vision of Feminine Mystery that has now disappeared from view.

She has long gone..spiralling back up to the Stars, the distant Galaxies and the Heavens…from where She came.

~Sophie Bashford

www.facebook.com/sophiebashfordintuitive

95 thoughts on “If You Choose an Awakened Woman~

  1. Connie Lepe

    Here in spanish:
    –SI ELIGES AMAR UNA MUJER DESPIERTA —

    Si eliges amar una mujer despierta, entiende que estás entrando a un nuevo territorio radical y lleno de retos.

    Si eliges amar a una mujer despieta, no puedes quedarte dormido.

    Si eliges amar a una mujer despierta, cada parte de tu alma será movida, no sólo tus organos sexuales y tu corazón.

    Francamente, si prefieres una vida normal, quédate con una chica normal.

    Si quieres la misma vida que has llevado hasta ahora, sólo busca una mujer que ya ha sido domada.

    Si sólo quieres que tus pies estén hundidos en las aguas fluidas de Shakti, quédate en lo seguro, domestica una mujer que no ha tocado aún el mundo salvaje y sagrado del océano femenino.

    Es muy cómodo amar a una mujer que aún no ha activado su poder interior sagrado porque ella no te tocará ningún botón sensible…

    Ella no te retará…

    Ella no te presionará a convertirte en la mejor versión de tí mismo…

    Ella no despertará las numerosas y olvidadas partes de tu espíritu para recordarte que en esta vida hay más vida que la que ves.

    Ella no mirará a tus ojos ojos cansados y no te enviará una luz de rayo a través del cuerpo, sacudiéndo tu despertar y revolviendo los viejos y perdidos deseos de tu alma

    Una mujer lozana y dormida será maravillosamente satisfactoria y calmante para tu ego, corazón y cuerpo. Ella se quedará callada a tu lado y te hará sentir necesario y responsable como si estuvieras llenando tu único rol en esta vida.

    Si esto es suficiente para tí, acéptalo. Amala con todo tu corazón y séle fiel agradeciendole cada día por el regalo de su suave y cálida presencia femenina en tu vida.

    Si esto no es suficiente para ti – y si tu corazón, cuerpo y espíritu sólo está pidiendo “el otro tipo de mujer”, la salvaje – Entonces sé consciente de que estarás a las puertas de un gran cambio y transformación de conciencia y de alma.

    Sé consciente de que estás haciendo una elección con gran peso kármico…

    Si estás eligiendo entrar al aura y al cuerpo de una mujer cuyo fuego espiritual está brillando, estás aceptando que necesitas cierto nivel de riesgo y peligro que te llevará a crecer…

    Una vez que has elegido amar una mujer de esta naturaleza, debes de aceptar total responsabilidad por los grandes cambios que entrarán a tu vida.

    Tu vida ya no dormirá tranquila todo el tiempo. Tu vida ya no te permitirá quedarte estancado en viejas y estancadas rutinas… Tu vida tomará olores y sabores radicalmente nuevos. Serás encendido por esta mujer que empezará a enviar ondas eléctricas a travéz de todos tus chakras espirituales sintonizándote con lo divino.

    Eligiendo ser sexual y románticamente intimo con una mujer despierta, lleva al coraje masculino a despertar sin miedo ante lo desconocido pero esto te traerá recompensas más allá de lo imaginado en tu comprensión.

    Ella te llevará a mundos sin descubrir, misteriosos y mágicos.

    Y te guiará, hipnotizado y semi borracho de amor entre los bosques salvajes de maravillas, sensualidad y ecstasy

    Ella te mostrará cielos sagrados tan llenos y ardiendes de estrellas que comenzarás a preguntarte si sigues vivo en el mismo planeta donde naciste…

    Ella te romperá y te abrirá tanto que tu corazón salvaje y apasionado se volverá medio loco con añoranza. Querrás consumirla y penetrarla en todos los niveles que tu esencia masculina puede consumir y penetrar el mundo – iluminando el universo con tu amor devoto.

    Ella te verá como nadie te ha visto

    Ella confiará en tí

    Ella te apreciará

    Y apreciará tus esfuerzos para hacerla feliz

    Ella apreciará cada cosa buena que hagas y cada cosa buena que eres.

    No huirá de tu oscuridad porque tu oscuridad no le asusta.

    Te abrazará, besará, consentirá y amará hasta que vuelvas a la vida. Te dirá palabras que tu alma entiende y no te castigará por tus errores.

    Es un riesgo monumental amar a una mujer despieta porque con ella no hay dónde esconderse. Ella lo ve todo, por eso puede amarte con la profundidad y presencia que tu cuerpo y alma han anhelado con tantas ganas por tanto tiempo… al punto de que pensarás si has estado vivo todo el tiempo que ella estuvo lejos…

    Amar a una mujera así es una elección que haces para comenzar a vivir con un alma encendida.
    .
    Tu vida no volverá a ser la misma de nuevo una vez que has aceptado su energía.

    Toma ese riesgo o aléjate; quédate con las chicas normales y acepta una forma diferente, segura y cómoda de vivir.

    Sólo aseguráte de que si haces esa elección, entonces después no pases el resto de tu vida mirando atrás esperando a volver a ver esa aprarición de misterio femenino que ya ha desaparecido de tu vida…Pues ella ya se habrá ido en su vuelo en espiral hacia las estrellas a distantes y lejanas galaxias y cielos de donde ella una vez llegó.

    ~Sophie Bashford

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  2. A very powerful post. Full of energy. I think looking for this kind of woman can be hard. As a man it’s sometimes easy to get caught up in the unawakened. But while traveling I met some of the awakened and I am definitely looking for that.

    In addition, I think it is mutual. A man with ambition searching for a awakened woman is not easily handled by an unawakened. Having ambitions, working with spirituality and looking to grow each day is something beautiful but both partners should be interested in it.

    Keep these posts coming. I really enjoyed this and will definitely read more.

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  3. This is really great and elegantly written. Have you read/heard of David Deida’s “The Way of the Superior Man”? He talks about how the true masculine has the courage to love fully and live through the unpredictable and transcendent feminine energy.

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  4. Christina Coffman

    We are the wild women! We have the soul urge to heal, protect and awaken those who are ready…..we are teachers by living the truth of our hearts and love with such intensity it feels like your soul is on fire at times….We are the WILD WOMEN who RUN WITH THE WOLVES, SHAPESHIFT AND HOWL AT THE MOON……AHHHHROOOOO!!!! We will continue to move shake and transform the old energies and paradigms until we are all at peace and balance, but this does not mean we are always at peace and balance for we are still moving mountains and this requires an enormous amount of strength. Therefore if you meet a partner who can love you with this in mind we can not only move mountains but we can heal our galaxy and others,,,,,,for anything is possible when the Divine masculine unites and intertwines with the Divine feminine to co-create a new world….

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  6. Leon

    And how do we language this to a woman who chooses to be with an awakened man?
    What happens when both are awakened ? Will shadow behavior on both sides still surface?

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    1. Im sure things will always come up/be triggered still, but would hope they would both approach this with mature understanding and hold space for one another, so that they feel they can move through the experience they are having instead of pushing it away—and heal.

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    2. Both can shine Leon and when the shadow appears, both are shiny enough to recognize it…:-). In fact I am fortunate enough to live in such a relationship. Light attracts light. In fact, I have just written a free e-book called “in 4 steps, to a healthy romantic relationship”, where you can find out more about one way of getting there. Contact me on Facebook (Jerry Zondervan or Buena Onda counseling) and I’ll happily send you a copy, with permission to redistribute it if you find it useful

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  7. Dharmendra

    YES I RESPECT AND WELCOME FEMININE POWER AND MASCULINE POWER
    .BALANCE OF FEMININE AND MASCULINE POWER IS VERY ESSENTIAL FOR DEVELOPMENT AND CONTRIBUTING IN MAKING THIS PLANET A BETTER PLACE TO LIVE IN.

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  8. Barb

    Wow, u climbed inside my spirit & opened it for others!!!! Be an awakened woman, my husband has always spoken of this in describing me personally, I chose many years ago to never look back & to refuse to live an ordinary life, not matter what comes at me, I will embrace it, set it free & walk with giants!!!!

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  9. Justin

    I Loved
    Love
    An Awakened Woman

    What an experience
    To have my Heart ripped out of my chest
    And die alone
    But get back up
    With still so much Love and Longing and Wonder and Awe
    That I have no choice but to forgive Her for killing me

    No—I didn’t choose to Love an Awakened Woman
    For someone like me
    That follows his Heart
    There was never a “choice”
    Not if I was to retain my self
    The path was laid in front of me
    My fate was sealed once our dance began

    The choice is now
    She traded Her Wind for my Darkness
    I’d do anything
    To Hell and back
    Die
    Again
    For Her
    But I won’t get in line
    I won’t wait
    Because that would be like throwing away the very gift that she gave me

    No—I didn’t choose to Love an Awakened Woman
    She Chose Me
    And She woke me up
    And She brought me up
    And She dropped me from the sky
    And I learned to Fly
    At last
    I can Fly.

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  10. Gemini

    Beautifully written. In duality you attract your opposite to hide away or feed your ego. When you are in Oneness you are with your Souls mirror ❤️ With the right man/woman your opens to your true purpose, so you live a life of fulfilment ❤️

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  11. Beautifully written. In duality you attract your opposite to hide away or feed your ego, love becomes a choice and habit of the mind only. When you are in Oneness you will meet or are with your Souls mirror ❤️ you fall in love with faith true love is more powerful than simple choice. With the right man/woman you’ll open to your true purpose in life, so you live an ever inspiring life base on fulfilment of your Souls truth ❤️

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    1. Hi wetalkwelisten, nice to meet you. I just read your comment and am curious for more. Are you willing to share? Specifically I am intrigued by “happily divorced”.
      I am intrigued by it because most people who seek my counsel, come because they do not wish to divorce, so I am really curious about your story.
      Hope you will share more, I hope to learn from it !
      Warmly, Jerry at Buena Onda Counseling

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  12. I want to say something interesting here (not in my mothertongue which is dutch, excuse me). I woun’t make a difference between unawakend and awakened woman, or people. I even think it’s dangerous to divide people in camps like this – the unawakened and the awakened ones. I understand what you mean but i see it more as a gradation – less or more awakend/conscious and this is possible in different areas (maybe you are most of the time very aware about your own body and what it needs for example – or in situations where people wait in a line you easily can have patience and you care for everyone also the one who works in front of the line – last example: there is one of your children where you have issues with and it’s hard to really connect).
    Every woman has the Wild Feminine inside her, really every woman! So maybe you are in love with a “tame woman” like descripted above, and suddenly she becomes more different because that is what people do every day: changing… I would like to speak up and say not to give up too fast on people and staying to believe in them how wild or (un)awakened they are. It doesn’t mean you have to hold on to (unhealthy) relationships! But love especially those who needs it maybe a little bit more, because others didn’t/don’t see the huge beauty in them and didn’t trusted them to become more themselves. Please choose love for every one. That is difficult for me too. 😉

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    It is a monumental risk to love an awakened woman, because there is suddenly no place to hide. She sees everything, therefore she can love you with a depth and presence that your heart and body have yearned for so hard, so long, so fiercely…that you wonder whether you have actually been alive for all the time that she has been away.

    Loving a woman like this is a choice you make to start living with your Soul on fire.

    Your life will never be the same again once you’ve invited her energy in.

    Take this risk on yourself, or step back, stay with the normal girl and accept a different, safer, more comfortable and somewhat calmer life.

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  15. enjoyed the learning of 35 years together
    knowing that my every turn was known
    also answer to questions of me she knew
    She, has been gone 19 years now
    knowing her I live by myself
    not alone…She is still alive

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  16. As a coach/counselor specializing in healthy human relationships, it was a joy to read this article. It was even a bigger joy to share it with others on my Facebook and Twitter networks, knowing it would reach thousands of people. Thank you so much for this inspiring contribution! I wish every woman on this planet acted in similar ways.
    Jerry Zondervan, Buena Onda Counseling (www.plunfy.wix.com/buena-onda-counsel)

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  18. Josh

    Lol the Ego is absolutely gigantic. This is why the world has such a divide. Just chill, and try to keep in touch with reality. None of us, are any better than any.

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  23. Who is the man that can love an Awakened Woman?
    He is not willing to settle and is ready to awaken to his own soul!
    He is not willing to accept mediocrity over an unbridled passion for life.
    He is not willing to live unloved and is ready to live passionately embraced.
    He is a man willing follow the path less taken because his own soul desires to be valued for it’s true worth.
    He is a man who knows he is not meant to live in the shadows of another’s fears, but in the courage of his own awakened soul.
    He is a man who is done with being given bread crumbs, knowing he is worthy to come out into life and experience the full buffet!
    Love an awakened woman whose fire will light the way for you to clearly see your own!
    BEAUTIFUL!

    Thank you Sophie!

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